I'm 21 years old. I've had sex quite a few times but I've never actually gotten off. Last night I had another opportunity and wasn't even able to get a hard on. I don't think I'm gay. I don't know what the problem is maybe I watch too much porn. I think it comes down to actual love, and then when I think about that I'm afraid I wont ever have sex with anyone I love. I wish life wasn't so complicated. — asked by Anonymous
It’s probably just anxiety and stress. Try smoking some pot, take your time, try plenty of foreplay and try to relax.